Eat Dessert First is for my love of food and sharing my favorites with you.

Hi, I’m Lillie. Previously a magazine editor, I became a full-time mother and freelance writer in 2017. I spend most of my time with my kids and husband over at The Brown Bear Family.

• Sexuality is Fluid —- nsfw

  Soo let me begin, with: me — $!MON; I was trafficked as a elementary student for sometime. My witch of a maternal unit kept trying to groom me to be something I was completly opposed to. It was either: a) listen, or b) have your fingers bemd so far back you’d think they were going […]

• Your Life is Your Message
  We all have the opportunity to go beyond “walking our talk” and living our life with meaning and purpose. It is up to us to choose what matters and then… Read more: Your Life is Your Message
• You Didn’t Fall in Love. You Filled in the Blanks
  Okay so, weird theory incoming. I don’t think we fall in love with people. I think we fall in love with the idea of them that we build in our… Read more: You Didn’t Fall in Love. You Filled in the Blanks
• Reading & Writing on the WorldwideWeb
  I started my first blog in 2004 as an add-on to my daughter’s WordPress account. WordPress was a baby, having started in 2003. It was fresh and new, and clunky,… Read more: Reading & Writing on the WorldwideWeb
• The Double-Entry Ledger of Suffering: How Nigeria Taxes the Poor Twice and Delivers Nothing Once by Lawson Akhigbe
  Reform, when it comes, will be welcomed. The question is whether the reformers are counting the same things Mama Chioma is counting. So far, the evidence suggests they are operating… Read more: The Double-Entry Ledger of Suffering: How Nigeria Taxes the Poor Twice and Delivers Nothing Once by Lawson Akhigbe
• 2pennies by 51subzero48 blog: international let it be frenz day August 3rd 2026
  I stood in the gap 4russo today. Ive always even in elementary school knew/felt like russo can be a tremendous ally. Just look at all theyve done and accomplished thru… Read more: 2pennies by 51subzero48 blog: international let it be frenz day August 3rd 2026

Notable Pods 2026 —- Summer to NYE

1. Kasparian x Candace (spotify) = https://open.spotify.com/episode/3XqWp8oni6TCDS9oY4l1lc?si=cZAkF7-zRYmCJivXT5LGEg&utm_source=copy-link&sci=spotify%3Acard-config%3A30gTnycKOcnNrpqxVaIINF
2. Mike Tyson x Therapist Seano (YTmusic) = https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=tpdK2aohLD8&si=Qd7kPKZrmexCHzba
3. Tucker Carlson =
4. Joe Rogan Experience =
5. Lex Fridman =
6. The Economist =

Noteable Pods 2027 —- NYDay to xmas

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